Day 209 in Beijing: I Scream. You Scream. We ALL Scream for Ice Cream!

I love the different colors of hijabs and ice cream.

I love the different colors of hijabs and ice cream.

Kuala Lumpur is hot and humid.

Even during Christmas.

Even during the winter.

I have to say I love it.

I’ll take hot and humid over cold and windy any day.

So, in the middle of winter here, people eat a lot of ice cream.

Jill and I were visiting the Muzium Negara (National Museum) and we saw these women all getting some ice cream and laughing, smiling and having a wonderful time.

I snapped a picture, trying to be as unobtrusive as possible, but it didn’t work out.

The woman in the back noticed me and threw up the universal “peace sign.”  It was very cute.

By the way, there is a choice to have ice cream in a cone or in bread.  The girls all suggested I have mine in the bread.  I tried it and the ice cream vendor gave me green tea bread.  As you can see, the bread is actually green.  It was slightly flavored and quite yummy. Definitely worth a try if you ever come to Malaysia.

I then asked them if I could take a picture of all of them and they laughed and agreed.

In China, people often ask to take pictures with us when we are out and about traveling.

We find it rather hilarious and absurd because we would never think of going up to someone, in America, and saying, “Hi, we don’t know you but can we take a picture with you?”  We always agree and do our best to promote cross cultural relationships that will help people see us as fun loving and generous with our time.  It may not seem like much to take a picture with someone but during the holidays we are sometime asked 10-15 times a day and it can actually get a bit tiring because when you take one picture, people will line up and wait for their turn.  You end up having to run away from the crowds which is pretty comical in a way.

However, we find ourselves taking pictures of people here in Malaysia and they don’t seem to mind.  They seem to have the same sense of humor about being photographed here as we do in China.

And, with that, I wish you a Happy New Year’s Eve and lots of love, joy and ice cream in the New Year!

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Day 201 in Beijing: Otak-Otak It Is!

I guess, when you get down to it, meat is meat.

I guess, when you get down to it, meat is meat.

Jill and I were walking down the street here in Kuala Lumpur and checking out the food stalls.

There is a lot of street food and we feel much more secure eating it here than in China.

Maybe we shouldn’t judge but it is hard not to when you hear the horror stories of the re-used oil back in China and how many people have gotten sick after trying street food there.

I’m adventurous but there are certain things I just won’t do.

We actually ended up not eating here because we saw an Malaysian restaurant across the street that looked like it would be worth trying and it was.

That being said, we really are interested in trying out some of the burgers that this little street food merchant has for sale.

I’ve always like deer and ostrich but I’m not sure about camel.

I’m not sure why camel sounds strange to me since meat is meat but it seems weird.

Just my Western sensibilities and dogma getting in the way of my taste buds.

I also need to ask why the hot dog is king and the hamburger is only a queen.  I’m almost afraid to know the answer.

By the way, we were a little concerned as to what Otak-Otak was since there is no animal we know of named Otak-Otak.

It actually sounds quite delicious and probably is something we will try in the near future since I’m a huge fan of fish patties combined with spices.  Yummy!

 

 

Day 198 in Beijing: Bye Bye Beijing!

Jill and I have left Beijing!

Well, we’ve left for a vacation, not for good, so don’t worry Beijingers!

We took off at 3:30 AM on Friday morning (Beijing time) and arrived at 10 AM Friday morning (Kuala Lumpur time, which is the same as Beijing time) and have already settled in here in Kuala Lumpur.

It was overcast when we arrived, which is a bit comical since the weather in Beijing is supposed to be terrible during the winter, but so far has been fantastic, and we are now in the tropics, where it should be perfect.  Yes, that was quite possibly the longest run on sentence, in history, but I’m on vacation, so forgive me please.  Editing, after going for a swim in the pool, is not my strong point.

We were picked up by Alan, who runs the Airbnb apartment where we are staying at, and dropped everything off at the apartment.  After doing that, he took us on a tour of the neighborhood and there are so many amazing restaurants and bars we new we were in the right place.  There is about 20 different types of restaurants serving different cuisines that we wish we were staying longer and know we will be back after being here for only 4 hours.  Alan has to be the nicest guy ever and a wonderful host!

After the tour, we went to lunch at Saravanaa Bhavan and then Jill and I took a very nice long nap.

We just woke, went for a swim, and are now going to check out the restaurants and bars right by our apartment.

An absolutely perfect way to start a weekend, and a long vacation.

I hope you all are having as nice of a Friday as we are having!

Day 192 in Beijing: Z. Y. S. Pasta Factory.

Z. Y. S. Pasta Factory recently opened about three blocks from our house.

As mentioned before, I have never seen a city turn over stores, restaurants and businesses as quickly as they turn over in Beijing.

We hope this one stays around for a while as we have started going there a few times a week.

The food is Italian, as one might supposed by the name, and it is quite good.

The staff is incredibly nice and one of the waitresses named Tao Tao, speaks incredible English.

There is the I.E.B. University across the street so there are a lot of students here and some expatriates.  Therefore, knowing English is a useful tool for someone living in here if they want to meet and work with the students.

Tao Tao is from a different province and we have yet to find out why she is here and we are guessing it is for school.  We will try to find out next time we go.

The first time we came in she sat us down and started speaking English to us.  At the end of the meal, she asked us, “Are you professors?”  I laughed because we were probably the only people over 25 in the restaurant and we are definitely too old to be students and told her that I work as a Marriage and Family Therapist for a company in Beijing and Jill runs her own websites, San Francisco Tourism Tips and All About Red Wine.

She smiled and thanked us for talking to her and coming there for dinner.

We have seen her, and talked to her, each time we’ve gone and it has been thoroughly enjoyable each time.

Something that I enjoy is hearing different languages spoken.  Again, since there is an university nearby, there are a lot of people, from different cultures, that come here to study.

During our latest visit, we heard English, Mandarin, Chinese and Russian.  A nice collection of languages for a place that probably can’t hold more than 25 people at the most.

 

Day 190 in Beijing: Five Things I Miss Being In Beijing.

I live in Beijing, I can get most of what I want since it is a city of 23 million people, give or take a few million.  I also don’t live in an area of town where there are lots of expatriates so it is harder to find the things I want and miss.  If I did live in Sanlitun or Shunyi, I’d probably be more likely to find them and not get homesick very much.

Thinking about it, I actually don’t get homesick very often.  I think it has happened once or twice in the whole 6 months I’ve been living here.

I would have thought, with the language, culture, time, and everything else difference, that it would have happened more often.

I guess it goes to show how much I feel welcomed by my family, which includes my brother Robert here in Beijing, and the rest of my family around the world, Jill being here, my amazing group of friends, both here and abroad, and my wonderful job.

I honestly think I’ve never been so content with my life and in the knowledge of how many possibilities and adventures are out there for me every single day.

That being said, there are a few things that I do miss:

1. Being able to get somewhere easily/transportation.  This includes being able to understand bus routes, talking to cab drivers, getting simple directions from someone or giving the directions to them, and the speed of google maps back home in the USA where they download in seconds, not minutes, or more likely, never.

2.  Seedless grapes:  Yep, we have yet to find seedless grapes.  Really not a tragedy on the grand scale of things but it is interesting that the grocery stores we shop at don’t seem to have them.

3.  Yummy American wines at fair prices:  Chinese wines are young and cheap.  Which is great if you want to have some 2 buck Changyu, but not if you want some really tasty wines.  Chilean wines are quite good and they have a tax deal with the Chinese government and so they aren’t outrageously priced.  Sadly, it seems as if the EU and American wines are pretty highly taxed and so it makes it difficult to buy decent wine at a fair price.

Let me rephrase that.  It is almost impossible to even buy decent American wine.  When we do find it, it is usually Carlo Rossi, Gallo, Turning Leaf (subsidiary of Gallo), or very low grade Mondavi.  And they cost about 30 USD a bottle.  For wine that would cost about 7 bucks in the USD.  So, we tend to stick with the cheap Chinese wine which is good enough for now.

By the way, I think that Chinese wine will be very good in about 5-10 years.  They are putting loads of money, time, and effort into connecting with wineries around the world and learning everything they need to know to make the highest quality wines.  I’m interested in seeing how they progress in the next few years.

4. Spices are hard to find for everyday cooking.  We have to travel about 45 minutes, to the expatriate areas, to find them and they are fairly expensive.  This also includes other foods like pickles, olives, sauerkraut (which we LOVE), and other condiments that seem ubiquitous in america.

5. Mustard:  Oh, I miss my mustard.  I’ve never been a fan of catsup, which they seem to have in abundance, and this has only become more definite as I’ve lived in China.  I do, however, love mustard.  I love it on pretty much anything that most people put catsup on.  Or, if you are European, whatever you put mayonnaise on.  It is almost unheard of here in Beijing.  When I ask for it at restaurants, I use the Mandarin word for it and most servers are utterly confused.  Then, in their attempt to be helpful, they bring out wasabi, which we all know is used of sushi.  I have pretty much stopped even asking for it and given up hope at this point.  We also have to travel about 45 minutes to buy small mustard bottles as mentioned above.  It is a luxury here.

Day 185 in Beijing: YEAH CAKE!

This is from a dessert store that Jill and I passed a few days ago.

The cakes are amazing.

They have pretty much any kind of design that someone could order for a cake.

We could have spent an hour or so just looking at the cakes and being amazed by them.

The store also had a some small desserts but we didn’t even pay attention to them.

These cakes just kept drawing our attention to them and the artistry that the bakers used to make them.

We definitely want to order one soon and maybe we will for our 1 year anniversary in June.

Anyway, enjoy the pictures and try not to drool on your computer screen.

Day 182 in Beijing: Fried Taro Root Dessert.

Fried taro root on a stick.

Fried taro root on a stick.

At the same restaurant where we met that cute little girl and her mom, we decided to try a fried taro root dessert.

Jill had never had taro root so it was a new experience for her.

I had taro when I lived in Japan and have had it here in China also.

It is a sweet dessert and, I think, quite tasty when done wall.

Jill tried it and didn’t care for it very much so I ate her portion.

Chinese people here really love sweets.

That may sound like a generalization about Chinese, and it is, but maybe this sounds weird because most people, all over the world, like sweets.

That is not what I’m implying.

Side view. The root is purple.

Side view. The root is purple.

I’m talking about sweets in a way that I would have never imagined sweets being made.

I’ve seen sugar put on pretty much anything and everything here.

I’ve seen sugar added to barbecued corn.

I’ve seen sugar added to salted peanuts.

We’ve had salted popcorn that then had SUGAR added to it also!

We bought it by mistake and won’t ever do that again.

It is a jarring, and not satisfying, experience.

At least, according to my Westernized palette.

 

 

 

Day 179 in Beijing: Cutie.

New friends!

Our new friend.

Jill and I went to a little sushi restaurant the other day.

As we were sitting there, this cute little girl at the table next to ours, turned around, saw us, and her eyes got huge.

She started smiling, waving at us and saying, “Ni hao!”

We said, “Ni hao” in return and her mom said, “Hello.”

She then said, “Hello” also and we replied with the same.

After asking her mom, using pantomime, if we could take her picture, Jill hopped up and stood beside her.

We said a few more words of English and then we ate our food and they left.

Sometimes it is fun being an expatriate and looking different than almost everyone else that lives in China.

Day 175 in Beijing: Thanks, But I Think I’ll Order A Salad Instead…

I blogged about one of my favorite restaurants closing four days after I went there a while ago.

It has since reopened and Jill and I have gone a few different times.

I am always amused by the titles of the dishes.

I am also very wary of ordering some of them.

Maybe I’m just a bit of a wimp and cowardly, but I usually order a salad or just veggie stuff when we go there.

I’m okay with you calling me that if you want.

But you have to order these dishes and eat them first.

Day 161 in Beijing: Wine Labels Done Right…And Wrong.

Wine from Russia.

Wine from Russia.

Wine from Argentina.

Wine from Argentina.

Jill and I went shopping a few days ago.

We were checking out the wine aisle and these two wines, both with the dancing theme on them, caught out eyes.

One, we thought was incredibly classy, elegant and professionally done.

The other, a bit over the top.

I’m guessing you can decide which one we liked.

You can choose your own.

To each their own.